Another Location Bondage

Yay!  We did another location bondage!

Here are the details.  

Daddy indicated a few days earlier that He was interested in doing another location bondage.  i had already built up a large number of penalty tokens so Daddy was going to lock me in the dungeon to watch some porn while He had some quiet time by Himself watching movies and playing computer games.  The last time was 5 hours with an option for 5 more.  At hour 4 i was planning on going for the extra 5 but that was when the porn failure occurred and killed the mood.  This time i was hoping to make sure that did not happen.  Daddy let me know that He wanted to go for 10 hours this time

We started off the session with a shower.  Daddy attached the chain and locked the door just after giving me the instructions that i needed to have a shower before the end of the evening.  That was kind of fun!  You have not lived until you take a shower with steel wrist & ankle cuffs on and a chain running out of the shower into the next room. Everytime i tried to wash my legs i felt the chain and was reminded of the bondage. After the shower, it was three porn DVD’s and leafing through a few porn magazines. Daddy come in around 6:00 (i think) with a tray of food. A short time later Daddy is back to take the tray and then it is just me, the chains, and the porn again for another few hours.   

Again, There is something about these bondage sessions that is so sexually stimulating yet also oddly relaxing.  i’m not sure i will ever understand that dichotomy.  9 Hours chained in the dungeon while locked in chastity and with nothing to do but watch porn. 

Next morning, Daddy and i had incredible sex!  i came so hard i thought i was going to pass out for a moment.  i actually felt light headed from it! 

Location Bondage

Another long break.  i plead "Work related craziness" as the reason.  Hopefully it is behind me now. 

Interesting thing to share is Daddy tried something new.  W/we tried out "location bondage". 

Daddy set up the dungeon for a multi-hour bondage scene.  The dungeon is already set up with some basic necessities (toilet, fridge, camera) for a long term scene.  Daddy loaded up the fridge with a simple sandwich, some snacks, and a couple of waters.  Then He set up the portable DVD player routed through a portable projector so the DVD's would be broadcast onto a large screen on the wall.  He picked out 5 porn DVD's and 2 porn books to keep me busy for a few hours.  Daddy then set me up in the dungeon with a long chain attached to a heavy metal piece of furniture.  The chain was just long enough to get to the fridge, the toilet, and the bondage bed but not to the door of the dungeon.  Daddy set up the first porn and then locked the door behind Him as He left.  The scene was that i was to spend the next 5 hours in the dungeon watching porn.  There was nothing else to do but watch and/or read about some hot man/man sex but since i was still locked in the chastity cage, there was no release. 

After 5 hours, Daddy came and let me out.  i was so very turned on by that point that i took care of Daddy's needs as soon as i was released.  Screw my needs!  All i wanted was to play with Daddy and get Him off as soon i could.  Later in the evening while W/we were laying in bed, Daddy played with me and i got to have my release. 

Overall i thought the scene was great.  i found it intensely exciting to be secured in a location with no ability to leave.  Also with nothing else to do in the area except watch porn added to the excitement.  Now the part of the scene where i almost flipped the bondage bed off its support posts by leaning too far over the edge was also exciting but not as much fun ;) Like i said, it was exciting yet oddly relaxing at the same time.  i definitely want to try it again at some point.  Best of all Daddy liked the quiet time too so it seems to be a win-win type of scene. 

A Lot of Nothing

Wish i had more to share but....

Chastity:
i found out something interesting this weekend.  Secetively, i've been kicking myself since ordering the new cage (steelheart2) since it does not seem to fit well.  There was a good half inch from the tip of my penis to the end of the cage.  i've been assuming that i simply measured wrong when i sent in the order for the cage.  This weekend i decided to use the chain supports i constructed to support the cage for the entire weekend.   One of the things i noticed is that the cage fits so much better when i am wearing the supports.  Of course!  What a fool i have been.  The cage was measured correctly; it just slips down over time as my balls get more loose.  Wearing the support chains keeps it in place and makes the feeling of chastity so much better.  Of course, that means i need to wear the support chains much more often now (if not all the time)

CPAP:
i'm able to sleep through the night completely now.  Guess what?!  One feels much more rested when one is able to sleep through the night without waking up to breathe every few minutes.  So glad i went in for the sleep study.  Of course, even though He has no said anything, it has to be an issue with Daddy that every night i wear a mask over my face and cannot cuddle with Him. 

Work:
It is a little slice of Hell. 

Family Conflict

Normally i avoid political postings but i really wanted to post something on this.  i'm still trying to wrap my head around the issue and hopefully writing this will help me sift through my own feelings on it

A few days back my brother posted something on his facebook wall that sparked a conflict between us.  It was an article to young voters that indicated they were naive if they voted for liberal candidates and as they grew older they would see the error of their ways.  i posted a short reply to it with my own words of wisdom to young voters:  learn about the issues, review voting histories of the politician and not blindly trust in any political promises.  At the end of my reply i indicated that no one should take an article to heart that calls someone naive for voting their conscience.  Apparently that opened the door for my brother to follow up with a half-page long post indicating that liberal voters are not only naive but also brainless.  It included supporting references to at least a half dozen issues some of which i knew were not entirely accurate.  Needless to say i was surprised at my brother so i posted another short, polite reply disagreeing with him on his points about liberals.  i included a reminder that it is conservatives that are blocking Daddy and i from getting married in this country.  i thought that simple reminder would be enough to close out the conversation and we could go back to keeping our politics private.  i learned long ago as a gay man not to engage my deeply religious brother in political discussions if i wanted to maintain peace in our family.  A day later my dear brother posts another message indicating among other things that "no one is preventing me and my partner from getting married."  (What fantasy world is he living in??)  He also reiterated that liberals are naive and that gays are looking for special rights in this country.  He also let me know what a tightrope he walks to keep the family peace while both respecting my lifestyle and maintaining his own religious beliefs.  He said all of this very politely with the sure conviction that he was right and everyone else was wrong.  That's when the brotherly gloves started to come off.  i posted a very restrained response under the circumstances.  i let him know what liberals are not naive or brainless simply because they do not agree with him.  i let him know i found his words offensive and that he needs to respect the opinions of others.  i also let him know that anytime he wanted to discuss same sex marriage in person i would welcome the opportunity but i was not going to discuss it over facebook.  i let him know that i considered the thread to be closed and would not reply again.  He actually did another reply!  i ignored that one. 

So now the conflict.  i love my brother but i also think he is a bit of an ass-hat.  This is not the first time he has let his religious beliefs guide him into an area i have trouble respecting.  He actually declined to come to my commitment ceremony because his minister told him it would be acknowledging & supporting my gay relationship which is against their church teachings.  i never let him know how much that decision disappointed me.  My own brother would not attend the most important day of my life due to religious objections.  i actually find that i respect his wife more than i respect him.  She is that type of deeply religious soul that is so sweet and kind you never want to see her hurt.  In the years i have know her, i have never heard her say a single unkind word about anyone.  i know that she believes in her religion deeply but has never done or said anything hurtful to Daddy or i about being gay.  i suspect she is the only reason why my brother is even trying to be nice to the man i love.  So, what is my solution to the conflict?   i keep thinking i could launch a fiery reply to his last message telling him where he could insert his beliefs.  As satisfying as i think that would be, i recognize the irony of my disrespecting his beliefs and i know all it would do is cause more drama in the family.  So, i'm just staying quiet and forcing the argument to go away.  But, my solution makes me feel like i'm being a coward for not standing up for my own beliefs.  Sure, i called him on how offensive his words were and i let him know i disagreed with him.  Should i be doing more or should i just force the confrontation to go away and keep the peace?

What about you, the readers?  Have you run into this in your family?  How did you handle it?      

Happy Fun Time!

Great news!  Daddy and i played this last Sunday.  i thought you guys might like to hear about it.   

While i was in the shower getting cleaned up, Daddy prepared one of the living room recliners by running a length of rope under it.  Once i dried off, Daddy put my normal wrist & ankle cuffs back onto me.  He had be lay back into the recliner and while fully extended in the chair He secured the rope to the cuffs.  He checked the rope to make sure there was no slack left in it at all.  He then told me that this was going to be a bondage scene and not a chastity scene so He was going to allow me to have an orgasm at the end of it.  Talk about a pleasant surprise!  That said, He added a blindfold and i could hear Him start a porn in the DVD player.  Within moments i could hear the sounds of multiple men engaged in some kind of rough sex.  With these sounds filling my ears, i could feel Daddy touching my chastity cage and removing the lock.  i sprang to full attention as soon as the cage was removed.  Daddy started the play with some light slaps and rubbing just to make my skin more sensitive.  Then He added a few clothespins to my nipples to add to the excitement.    Before the play got anymore intense, He leaned in close and kissed me a few times to let me know He loved me.  And then the play started for real.  Daddy spent the next hour alternating between pain and pleasure.  For the pleasure, Daddy used a well lubricated flesh light to bring me right to the edge of release.  For the pain, Daddy alternated different types of slaps all over my body.  Sometimes He used His hand and sometimes He used a riding crop.  He varied the speed and intensity of the slaps so i could not get used to them.  He roamed all over my body.  He even did the soles of my feet at one point.   (That was kind of fun; i hope W/we do that again some more.)  And knowing how much i love cbt, He spent a lot of time there.  He continued to torture me until He saw i was no longer at the edge and i had started to soften and then He switched back to the fleshlight again.  This continued for roughly an hour before Daddy finally allowed me to cum.  

It was a very enjoyable session :)

Daddy took some video of the scene and is trying to upload it to Xtube.  i'll post a link later. 

Insecurity

Argh!  i hate it when my insecurities get the better of me.  i'm fairly well-balanced most of the time but every now and then the little voices in my head start telling me that my world is filled with crap.  This time the voices were telling me that Daddy was getting nothing out of the BDSM portion of O/our relationship and that it was time for me to just take off the gear and put it away for good.  i spent about 24 hours silently analyzing every word Daddy said, every look He gave me, and every action He did or did not take.  Finally i brought the issue up to Daddy fully expecting a major drama.  You can imagine my surprise when Daddy looks at me like i was drunk, high, and possibly insane.  He took on the calm soothing tone of voice usually reserved for small children and let me know everything was OK.  We spent the next couple of hours just talking and working through various miscommunications and misperceptions.  And now all the little voices have gone silent again 

So, the moral of this post is that communication is the most important skill you can bring to a relationship.  The second most important skill is the abilty to calmly talk your partner down from the ledge when he goes just a little bit insane

Sleep Study

Not sure if i mentioned it earlier in the blog but i had to go in for a sleep study.  If you are into medical play scenes and you have not done a sleep study, i highly recommend it.  Picture it: you are getting ready for bed when a stranger wires up your body with at least a dozen pads.  He tells you that as you sleep, he will be watching you through cameras mounted on the walls and your every physical reaction will be monitored and recorded for others to review.  Nothing sexual about that at all?   i went in for the first study back in March.  i had to admit that i felt guilty during the set up because it came across as so D/s that i kept thinking to myself "shouldn't Daddy be here for this".  Anyway, i got the results of the first study back and sure enough i have sleep apnea.  i scheduled a return appointment for this past week so i could do the study again while hooked up to a CPAP machine.  Now picture the same study with the same feelings of sexual tension as before but now with an element of breath control.  How do we not have scenes like this in dungeons across the world?  i would not be a bit surprised to see Daddy come into the dungeon wearing scrubs and carrying a bundle of wires one of these days

Another long break in the blogging. Argh!

Another long break in the blogging.  Argh! 

Got all kinds of news though.

Daddy and i decided to take a short break from the chastity play.  It lasted for roughly 2 weeks before Daddy indicated it was time for another chastity session.  Of course it might have had something to do with the all-male pool party we were hosting that same day ;)  For whatever reason, i'm glad to be back in the cage again.  It was weird not to wear it for those two weeks.  It felt like something was missing between my legs.  Now that i'm wearing it again, i feel more complete. 

Back to the pool party...it was a fabulous success!  We had roughly 35-40 gay men splashing around in our pool and about half of them were daring enough to swim naked.  i caused a bit of a commotion when i took off my trunks and everyone saw my chastity cage.  i was a little concerned but the group was all kink-friendly so i knew no one would freak out about it.  One of the guests even pulled me aside to let me know that his boy normally wears a cage as well but was allowed out for the
party.  It was kind of nice to find others who are into the fetish. 

Daddy and i are on vacation for the next few days.  i'm trying to convince Daddy we need to do some BDSM play while we are off work.  After all, we have plenty of time and will be well rested.  Wish me luck!

Posting Again

Howdy all!  Sorry it has been so long since my last post.  i'm afraid that "life has gotten in the way".  Work is a little slice of hell and i get to try to herd all the little demons into one direction. 

The big news is that Daddy just gave me a release last night :)  We were about to go out to the pool when Daddy pulled out the key to the cage.  After he unlocked it, we went swimming in the pool.  After a few minutes, Daddy and i started kissing.  One thing led to another and whoopee! 

In other news, we are prepping for a pool party at the end of the month.  Over the weekend we spent hours prepping the back yard for the party.  We washed all the windows, cleaned all the lawn furniture, got both of the water features running again, and even replaced the worn out umbrellas.  By the time the weekend was over, i was exhausted and Daddy had a hurt shoulder. 

i'm a little conflicted on the pool party.  We host the party every year and it goes very well but some of our friends leave early each year.  i found out from a friend who is helping with the coordination the reason for the guys leaving early.  They are uncomfortable with the party being mixed male/female.  i talked it over with Daddy and with the co-coordinator and we are hosting two parties this year.  We will have a male only party and a mixed party.  There is my conflict.  It just feels weird to hold a party and not invite the female friends too.  i think i'm just being silly about it but it still feels weird. 

In other news, Daddy and i just booked a room for Southern Decadance this year.  For those who don't recognize it, it is a gay party in New Orleans over Labor Day.  It will be my first SD and Daddy's second.  i cannot wait to see it. 

Well.  Daddy is starting to give me that look that says i need to wrap it up.  Time for bed.

What A Weekend!

Lots and lots of information. 

Daddy indicated on Friday night that we were going to have a dungeon playdate over the weekend. We just had to find time for it. Talk about strong incentive to make sure we kept one of the evenings free. Saturday day was already booked as we were planning on going back out to the Scarborough Faire for most of the day. Saturday evening would be out because we would be laying on the couch like little slugs complaining about how much walking we did out at the Faire :) So Sunday was the day. We only needed to do a few errands and tasks around the house so we had plenty of time

i crawled out of bed on Saturday morning at 5:00am. What a horrible time of day to be up and moving! But it was worth it. We got out of the house by 7:15 and made it to Scarborough in time for the opening cannon fire at 10:00. Both Daddy and i were in costume. He looked so dashing in his outfit. A quick stop to get Him some new boots and then i was off to a wine tasting. OMG! Normally i cannot stand Rose wines but they served one called Elio Perone “Bigaro” that tasted like fizzy strawberry koolaid. And to finish off the tasting they served one of my favorite wines, a Ripasso.   

Sunday finally arrived and we got to play. Daddy and i went to the dungeon and He secured me to the bondage bed. Daddy placed a blindfold over my eyes and then a gag in my mouth. He then placed a riding crop in my hand and let me know i should raise it if i needed a break. He started out with the bear claw. Very intense! At some point He attached a pair of tweezer-style nipple clamps and very slowly pulled them off. Then some alternating chest and ball slapping getting more and more intense until Daddy removed my chastity cage. Let’s just say there was a happy ending :) It was much more intense than our normal play. i had to admit that it was a little scary; i didn’t know what was happening and near the end i wondered if Daddy was angry with me. Daddy indicated that He purposely went harder and faster than He normally does to see how much i could take. Once He explained it i was glad that He felt comfortable enough to push my limits a little more. Now i am looking forward to the next playdate

What a Weekend!

Well drat! 

Daddy and i were supposed to play this weekend and W/we ran out of time.  W/we did errands on Saturday and went to a memorial concert with friends in the evening.  i had to work on Sunday morning.  W/we went to see the new Avengers movie with friends and then hung out afterwards.  Long story short, W/we just ran out of time to play this weekend.  Hope W/we can find time tomorrow night

P.S.  If you have not seen the Avengers movie yet, you must!  It is the best movie i have seen in years! 

Dungeon Time Coming Soon!!!

Daddy wanted to cuddle this morning. He ended up carressing my head, arms, and chest for something like an hour. i even fell asleep for a while there. Afterwards, Daddy and i played around which is always fun. Near the end, i asked Daddy if it would be Ok for me to cum too. He said “no” but he indicated it was because W/we are going to play in the dungeon this weekend. Yay!!! Always fun to do some dungeon time. More information coming soon :)

Bad Boy!

Ooops!  i've been a bad boy! 

One of the rules is that i am supposed to update either my blog or my journal every day.  i've been updating my journal to the exclusion of my blog site for about a month. 

So, let's try to catch up a little bit. 

First off, work has been a little slice of Hell recently. My new manager is driving me crazy.  i find myself fantasizing more and more about smacking him on the back of the head.  i know it is wrong but the fantasy is so appealing.  One bright spot at work is that we did sucessfully manage to get a hardware refresh project approved for my area.  And i get to run the project :)

My chastity lockup is going OK but i had a "lapse" recently.  Daddy was playing with me on the couch and i got a little too excited.  Before i knew what was happening i was cumming and Daddy did not give His approval for it.  Daddy made a comment about the unapproved orgasm and the penalty for it but nothing has happened yet.  He has indicated that He plans on dealing with the punishment next time we go into the dungeon and that hasn't happened yet.  Now i have mixed feelings about the next dungeon play.  It has been 2 months since the last time we played in the dungeon so i'm really looking forward to it but i'm a bit leery about the punishment now. 

That's it for now.  i'll post more in the next day or two.

More info from the weekend

Just occurred to me that i had some chastity info to share from the weekend.  i was outside of the cage for a good chunk of the weekend for various reasons.  Even as comfortable as Daddy's bike can be, it still feels too uncomfortable to ride any distance in chastity.  Daddy agreed to let me leave it off for the ride up and back.  He also allowed me to leave it off for the time at the Faire.  With all the walking around and the heat, it would not have been fun at all.  Now that we are back home, i'm back in the cage and looking forward to the next playtime

Scarbarough Faire

Sorry for taking so long to update the blog; there has just been so little to report outside of work craziness.

This weekend Daddy and i went out to the Scarborough Faire in Waxahachie.  Daddy decided to drive the truck there while the rest of us rode the motorcycles.  Heaven help us all; they actually wanted me to lead the group.  i managed to get us there and no one had an accident so i think it went well.  We heard there was going to be rain on Sunday so i decided to take Daddy's 3-wheeler instead of my bike.  His bike has a lot more stability in the rain.

The first day at the Faire we got there early enough for Daddy to get a prime parking spot close to the door.  We tried to keep His time on His feet to a minimum.  The performers were great (check out Queen Anne's Lace), the food was great (Scottish Eggs), and the company was great!  Big news is that while we were there, Daddy picked out a costume.  He found a leather outfit that looked like some type of high ranking official.  It has an overcoat made of light weight black leather with a blue trim.  Under that is a light weight black leather jerkin with removable sleeves.  Under that is a simple white cotton shirt.  Daddy asked for a custom pair of pants with a two-toned blue pattern.  i'll post a picture as soon as a the whole costume is complete.  It truly is a beautiful outfit.  And it means Daddy will be able to dress up like i do when we go to the faires.  Of course, i think we may have to do a dungeon scene with Daddy in the leather overcoat.  :)

We decided to head back out there on Sunday too.  It was a lot of fun but we almost got caught by the rain.  The storm blew up faster than we expected.  i think it was the fastest we have ever gotten into our gear and on the road.  We had to really race down the road (maybe just a bit above the speed limit) but we made it safely back to Austin ahead of the storm.      

Now just resting on the couch.  i took tomorrow off work so i can rest & recover from the trip.  It will also give me a chance to finish unpacking from the trip.  All-in-all it was a fun weekend     

Some Like It Hot

Another successful movie night!  A few Doms and several subs came over tonight for dinner, drinks, and a campy movie.  The movie was "Some Like It Hot" and it was great!  We had a wide assortment of food and lots of wine of course.  The best part was the energy of the evening.  It's always fun to watch several subs at work at the same time.  We had someone setting up drinks while someone else was putting together appetizers and another setting up the plates/napkins.  It was an impressive display of service.  At the end of the night, everyone was of the same opinion; we must do these movies nights more often.

A Good Weekend

Good news!  This weekend we did the repainting for the two dry wall repairs in the dungeon.  We also finished putting the toys onto the peg board we installed last weekend.  So, the dungeon space is officially complete (at least for now).  We still have more future plans for the space; hopefully this year we can get to them.  Sometime soon we need to pull in a kink-friendly electrician to help with some electrical work in the room.  We are wiring the room for video with an overhead security camera replacing the overhead lamp.  When we do that we want to have wall sconces added.   Also we are wanting to replace the carpetting with either tile or concrete and then cover the play areas with pads.  Cleanup will be a breeze. 

Tonight was a movie night with friends.  We found out last week that one of our friends has never seen Dr Who.  How shocking!  So another friend brought over her Dr Who DVD collection and we watched about 6-8 of the better episodes.  i was in full "boy mode" making sure everyone had drinks and food over the course of the evening.  A good time was had by all i am happy to say

Take care! 

SPLF last day

Yesterday was an interesting day at South Plains

We checked out a presentation on aging in the BDSM scene.  It really got me thinking because i just celebrated yet another anniversary of my 39th birthday and i'm feeling gravity getting stronger each year.  After 90 minutes of hearing horror stories of what Father Time has planned for my sex life i wanted some more "light-hearted" fare.  So what did we pick for the next presentation?  It was "Disallusionment in the Leather Community".  How much more light-hearted and bubbly can a topic
get?  It was a collection of emails that the presenter had solicited from different BDSM sources over the last several months.  All of it dealt with various aspect of being disapointed or burnt out with the community.  It was extremely thought provoking and i hope that she presents it in other conventions. 

After the presentations, it was time for dinner with friends which made the day much brighter.  All-in-all a very fun day.   

Today we packed up and headed back to Austin.  Already home and sipping on some good coffee (as opposed to the hotel coffee).   Daddy has already indicated i should get cleaned up for another play session tonight.  Yay!!

Gotta run

SPLF

Shhh!  Daddy is still asleep in the next room. 

We played last night!  Yay!  We picked up a new toy that we both wanted to try out; it's a bear claw glove.  Oh my!  It was fun!  The playtime went perfectly with lots of CBT and TT (both favorites of mine).  For the most part Daddy just used His hands for this session.  He did use the new glove of course and also a riding crop but the rest was all Him.  He even tried slapping on the bottoms of my feet (bastinado i think).  i don't remember us trying it before but it was nice.  He only did a few slaps each and it didn't get too painful but i could see where it could quickly.  Definitely something to try again if Daddy is OK with it. 

Best part of the session is that Daddy did the tease & denial aspect of the chastity play.  He took me right up to the edge of an orgasm and then stopped.  It reached the point where i had already alerted Daddy i was close and since He kept stroking i stopped trying to hold back and i relaxed into the upcoming release.  It was at the point, that Daddy stopped.  i felt so submissive to Him at that point. 

Only downside to the session is that i wasn't restrained for it.  i always like to be restrained when we play and for some bizarre reason (maybe a brain fart) we didn't pack any rope.  Neither of us realized the oversight until we were ready to play.  The irony of playing while unrestrained at a BDSM convention did not escape me. 

Our original plan for the night was to make use of the male-only playspace set up for SPLF.  Both of us are interested in trying it out but we were both a little put off on the idea of playing in front of other people.  So, we decided to play in the room last night and check out the playspace tonight.  So, two play sessions in one weekend.  i'm a very happy boy!!

Anyway, what else is happening.  We went to one of the presentations.  It was a discussion on "Understanding Submission". It was basically a discussion on the different types of submission and what drives subs to want to submit.  The subject matter itself was great and i think the presenter was doing a good job engaging the class but there was one lady that was killing the whole class.  She just kept asking question after question until the whole presention was dragging.  i felt sorry for the presenter by the end of it.  We are going to try another presentation today.  It is "AARP BDSM".  Neither of us are reaching AARP age yet but the description sounds almost like a standup comedy routine so it should be entertaining.  There is another communication based one that i would love to attend if possible.  It talks about discussions and conflict resolution while in a D/s role but uses a team based approach that Daddy and i already use.

There were a few whispers yesterday of doing a trip out to the local leather store.  i hope we do so i can look for another pair of leather shorts.  Mine shrank over the years so i need a larger pair now ;)

More information on the convention tomorrow
  

SPLF

Sorry i skipped several days posting but Daddy and i have been racing to get ready for an out of town trip this weekend.  We are in Dallas for South Plains Leatherfest.  It's a weekend convention filled with other BDSM-friendly souls.  This morning we are meeting some friends for breakfast and then picking up our registration packets.  We decided to skip the classes that are offered for the 9:00am slot.  Too early for our tired minds this morning. 

Ooops!  Bit of a drama brewing in the shower.  i kept hearing Daddy swearing in the bathroom and thought i should investigate.  Apparantly the host hotel decided to do some hot/cold tempertaure scenes for the patrons who wish to take showers in the morning.  The hot water keeps cutting off and on.  Wish me luck; i'm next

i'll post more about the convention over the next few days 

Take care everyone

Too sick and twisted?

Daddy's knee is still hurting so still no dungeon play time in the foreseeable future.  i started thinking about it and decided to try to craft a bondage scene that would not require Daddy to stand for the entire time. 

Idea for a bondage play scene:

Items needed: chastity cage, wrist/ankle restraints, several lengths of rope/chain, locks/clips, nipple clamps, estim unit with pads, rude boy prostate vibrator, 2^nd vibrator for cage, blindfold, gag, headphones, computer, porn, duct tape

Plan for the scene: i run the rope/chain under the living room recliner and measure it out so the clip just reaches the leg restraints when the chair is fully open.  i run another 2 lines of rope/chain under the seat and behind the chair back to keep me secured in position in the chair.  Clips can be used to secure the chain or knots for the ropes.  i should shower, shave (balls and nipples too), and clean out in prep for the anal vibrator.   i set up the computer with porn (paused for now) and headphones.  i insert the anal vibrator and secure it with duct tape.  i attach estim pads to my taint, the chastity cage, and both sides of my balls.  i secure my legs together using rope/chain.  i then secure myself into the chair.  Daddy takes over for the final tie down while sitting next to me.  He secures the wrist restraints over the head of the chair with my arms fully extended.  He secures the ankle restraints with the other end of the chain/rope with the chair fully extended.  All the ropes/chains to be tightened at this point by Daddy.  Daddy attaches the pad connections to the estim unit.  He attaches the blindfold, gag, and headphones.  He then secures all three with duct tape to prevent being dislodged.  He attaches the nipple clamps and secures them with duct tape to avoid slippage.  He reaches under me to trigger the anal vibrator.  He turns on the 2^nd vibrator on the chastity cage.  Daddy turns on the estim unit and sets alternate pulses through 1 channel for the taint/cage and the second channel for the balls.  He removes the pause on the porn and makes any other final adjustments to all settings for longer term bondage.  Daddy is sitting next to me on the couch and just checks in with me on increasing intervals (5 minutes, 15 minutes, 30 minutes, 1 hour, etc) to make sure i'm still OK.  Daddy replaces the porn as needed.  He removes & replaces the nipple clamps on increasing intervals (5 minutes on/1 minute off, 10/2, 15/3, 30/5?).  Once i'm floating in the scene, Daddy can adjust the estim to keep it fresh.  Lower levels on both paths should nudge me towards the edge.  HIgher settings on the balls should pull me back from the edge of an orgasm.  If Daddy decides a release is allowed or it happens accidentally, i'm sure i will want to end the scene but it is up to Daddy to decide how much longer the scene is to continue

So, what does everyone think?  Too twisted or too tame?  Any ideas for improving it? 

Cursed?

LOL!  i'm cursed!  Still no dungeon time.  We went out to the local renaissance festival on Saturday and all the walking aggravated Daddy's recently healed knee.  There is no way He can stand for any length of time so many of the dungeon activites are out of the question for now.  Hmmm.   Maybe i can convince Daddy to do some kind of bondage scene instead.  i'll try offering up a prayer to the great BDSM gods :)

My birthday weekend is coming up.  Daddy has already indicated that i get to rest & relax for the entire weekend.  No tasks.  No service.  No protocol.  i foresee an entire weekend of really bad science fiction movies and reading comic books. 

As for the chastity scene: i have really been screwing up over the last week (forgetting to text Daddy, skipping daily exercises, etc).  Taking that break really threw me and it is taking me a while to get back into the habit of the protocols.  Daddy has indicated that He is being really lenient on the protocols leading up to my birthday.  (Thank You, Daddy!)  He's let me know that i do not have permission to abuse His generosity and blow off the protocols on purpose.  He also let me know that the scene protocols will be fully enforced next week.    

Oops!  Daddy is getting ready to head towards the bedroom.  Time to wrap up the post.

Thanks for the feedback

Thanks for all the comments, guys!  So far no fallout from the "secret".  Keep your fingers crossed.

i actually had to read through the rules of the scene again.  Memory fails more often as i get older.  i had totally forgotten a couple of the new rules we added near the end of the last scene.  Fortunately, Daddy is being lenient on the rules for this week. 

Sorry to say no play time yet.  Daddy originally planned for us to play around in the dungeon over the last weekend as part of the new scene.  He was feeling tired on Sunday night so he postponed and then my work schedule killed it for the rest of the week.  Hopefully this weekend.  At least i know it will be the bondage bed (yay) if we do play in the dungeon.  We let a friend of ours borrow the portable sling frame for L.U.E.Y weekend in Houston.  Hope he has fun!

Got a trip planned for this Saturday.  We are driving out to the local renaissance festival for a day trip.  i always love heading out there and seeing all the hot guys in tights.  i'll be dressed up of course. 

Well, Daddy is starting to get ready for bed so i need to sign off.

A New Adventure Begins

Yay!  Daddy decided to start another round of chastity.  As part of His birthday celebration this past weekend, He placed me back into the cage.  Same conditions as last time with no preset end time.  Information on the actual scene mechanics can be found earlier in the blog.  Lots more posts to come on this subject. 

On a barely related topic, Daddy did something "risky" last Friday.  We were at a going away party for my boss and Daddy got talking with the wife of one of my coworkers.  They were chatting like long lost friends in no time.  At some point, they started sharing personal information about each other and He decided to let her know about the chastity.  i got to admit that worried me.  The last thing i want is for our personal kinks to start making their way through the office rumor mill.  Granted that she shared some pretty juicy information about her husband so there is incentive to keep the secret from both sides.  Still, it seem risky.  I know my coworker friend will keep the secret but i'm not as sure of his wife.  Time will tell if this comes back to haunt us.

i've been noticing that the other bloggers post pictures of various hot guys.  What does everyone think?   Should i be doing that too?   

No sex. No BDSM. Just life.

What a weekend!  We jumped on the bikes yesterday and rode out to the Dublin Dr Pepper plant.  Some backstory on why we went to Dublin: the bottling plant there makes is famous for making the soda using pure cane sugar instead of the normal corn syrup which of course makes the soda taste better.  Well there was a huge drama about labelling and marketting that made everyone think that Dr Pepper was going to close that plant.  So, off we went to see it before it was closed.   End of backstory.  It was a very relaxing ride with a couple of good friends.  I should say that Daddy drove support while the rest of us rode out to Dublin.  His foot is still in a boot for the next 6 weeks so no riding for him.  Backstory number 2: Daddy has to wear a protective boot for the next 6 weeks because he has a hairline fracture in one of the bones in his foot.  It happened when he stepped on a Christmas bulb near near the driveway.  (Yes.  You read that correctly.)  A tiny Christmas bulb caught his foot at just the right angle to break one of the bones.  End of backstory #2.  Anyway, we checked out the plant museum and grabbed a couple of bottles of soda.  Then off to the hotel and food.  We wandered over to a local barbque place and had some of the best barbque I've ever tasted.  We got back this morning after another nice relaxing ride back home.   We had just enough time to grab something light to eat and then start getting ready for a show.  We purchased tickets to go see "Wicked" several weeks ago.  Well, we just got back a few minutes ago.  It was the second time for both of us and it was just as good the second time around.  I read the book a couple of years back and I recommend it.  It gives a little more detail that the play just doesn't have time to go into.

I figured I would do a quick update while Daddy was getting ready for bed.  G'nite everyone!  

Taking a Break

Good news!  Bad news!

We ended the scene last Sunday.  Daddy and i were in bed playing.  i was going down on Daddy and he was playing with my balls and taint.  And i came!  i think it surprised Daddy as much as it did me.  Neither of us thought i could cum while is was in the new cage but it happened.  Daddy thought about it for a few minutes and decided that it was time to take a break from the chastity play anyway so He counted that release as the end of the scene for now. 

Daddy took control of my orgasms back on June 19th of last year and He closed out the scene on Sunday January 15th so roughly 7 months of chastity submission.  i had a great time with it and i think Daddy did too.  So, now i'm free to play with myself until i go blind and / or grow hair in my palms.   Oddly enough i miss the feel of the cage.  i kind of got used to wearing it so now it feels odd when it is not there. 

Protocols

Great news!  Daddy and i talked it over this morning and decided that we want to keep the enhanced protocols going outside of the vacation time.  We both enjoyed the improvements we saw to the scene dynamic over the vacation.  So, we went over the list this morning and selected the ones that we felt we could maintain without impacting our day-to-day lives too much. 

Discipline Jar
Asking Permission
Giving up my wallet and car keys when we run errands

i know i was really hoping to keep the discipline jar concept alive.  i included daily exercises and journal updates in the list of activities i must perform to avoid incurring a penalty.  i recognize i need help to keep me focussed on doing those activities.  i wonder how much of that is me being a boy wanting more structure and how much of that is me being lazy and needing a kick in the pants

Back to Work

Sigh!  The vacation is over and tomorrow i go back to work.  That means the enhanced protocols are over until the next vacation.  i'm trying to convince Daddy to keep at least some of the enhancements in place but i'm not sure He is agreeable to it.  His concern is the protocols getting in the way of the day to day activities.  More information as it becomes available  

New Year's Day

Happy New Year (again)!

The Harry Potter marathon was a complete success.  Good movies, good food, and good friends.  It was a perfect way to celebrate.

i found out last night as W/we were going to sleep that Daddy caught me in 3 transgressions over the course of the day.  So, i was at 12 tokens last night.  Daddy waited until after our friends left this afternoon before He administered the discipline.  Daddy told me to go pick out a paddle and bring it to Him in the living room.  So, i grabbed a hand-shaped riding crop style paddle from the dungeon and brought it to Daddy.  He tested it out on His hand to make sure He had a feel for it.  He told me to bend over with my hands flat on the coffee table.   He then did 5 medium-to-light swats on my left butt cheek while asking what i learned.  i replied that i needed to ask for permission before getting up.  i apologized and thanked Daddy.  i’m still doing OK in the scene; no harmful effects from the spanking.  i double checked with Daddy to make sure He was OK too and He is doing OK.  So, i think adding discipline into the scene was a success.