Discipline

Daddy reviewed my notes in our scene documentation and has approved them.  i'll include a copy of the section below.  Daddy is really watching me to see if i slip up.  He has already identified 2 mistakes since we started the Discipline Jar.  At this rate, i'll get disciplined before the end of the year.  i'm just a little afraid of it but also very excited.  i've already noticed that i am more respectful of Daddy.  Just the idea that Daddy is monitoring how well i am doing and will be prepared to enforce the rules makes me feel much more submissive to Him. 

Discipline

To enhance His dominance over boy and to maintain the protocols of the scene, Daddy will sometimes be required to enforce discipline. 

Choice of discipline is up to Daddy but is chosen based upon the most impact to boy

·         Removal of privileges (TV, laptop, games, etc) for some amount of time
·         Time-out - boy to sit quietly without speaking (duct tape optional) for some amount of time
·          Spankings
·         Others to be defined

If Daddy or boy feel uncomfortable implementing the discipline immediately after the infraction that triggered it, the discipline may be delayed until tempers cool and feelings are no longer hurt.  Discipline may not be delayed indefinitely.

Violating scene protocols lead to discipline.  Refusing to submit to discipline is itself a violation.  If boy refuses to submit, he gets a spanking plus the original discipline.  If boy refuses to submit to the spanking, the entire scene ends until such time as boy apologizes to Daddy and submits himself for discipline 

Discipline Jar

For infractions that do not reach the point of immediate discipline to correct, there is a Discipline Jar which contains a number of tokens.  For every infraction over the course of the day, Daddy has boy move one or more tokens to the base of the jar.  When all the tokens are in the base of the jar, boy receives some form of discipline. 

Token count does not reset once a discipline is given.  Disciplines are not a free ticket for boy to misbehave!  Enough tokens are removed based on the severity of punishment and to reduce the count below the level that triggers a discipline.  boy is to be on his best behavior after a discipline to avoid incurring a second one.  

Number of Token = 10

Number of paddle swings = 5

<numbers may change based upon experience>

Some examples of token counts for each infraction:

Type of Infraction	# of Tokens
Calling Daddy “Honey” instead of “Daddy”	1
Arguing with Daddy (discussion OK) (Daddy will warn if He feels boy is arguing)	1
Mail not picked up or picked up without text sent to Daddy	1
Call/Text not sent to Daddy when either leaving location or arriving at location	2
Daddy does not know where boy is.  He is looking for boy and is worried	3
Daddy has to remind boy He needs diet coke or water	1
boy clothed without need	1
boy out of cuffs without need	1
boy out of cage without need	3
boy locks cage/cuffs when  Daddy available to do it	1
boy unlocks cage/cuffs when  Daddy available to do it	2
boy has to be reminded to get applesauce & medicine for Daddy	1
Homework assignments not done in a timely fashion (Daddy’s discretion)	1
boy carries wallet / keys without reason when running errands with Daddy	1
boy gets up without permission	1
boy has an unapproved orgasm	5
boy does not consume all ejaculate (both Daddy’s and his own) unless Daddy consumes	1
Sassiness OK; Poking fun is OK; Disrespect is not OK	2
Willfully breaking a rule (with forethought and without good reason acceptable to Daddy)	x2
Failure to update either journal or blog each day	1
Some form of exercise each day (walk / exercise equipment / physical tasks)	1
boy prepares most of Daddy’s meals.  If boy slacks off enough times, it counts as an infraction (Daddy’s discretion)	1

These are only examples.  Daddy may adjust the number of tokens based upon the impact/severity of the transgression.  Daddy may waive infraction if He agrees with the reason it occurred. 

Spanking

This is a spanking to reinforce the scene protocols and demonstrate Daddy’s dominance over boy.  It is not meant to be pleasurable.  Paddle used is one of the riding crop style paddles.  There are no warm up swings.  Number of swings and intensity of the swing is determined by Daddy but must be high enough to enforce the discipline.   Marks/bruises are to be expected.    boy is restrained in a bent over position to make his butt more available for each swing.  boy wears a ball gag or duct tape for the spanking to muffle any sound.  boy will wear hood if required by Daddy.  Once the spanking is done, boy is to apologize to Daddy for the infraction(s) and thank Him for performing the discipline. 

boy acknowledges how difficult it may be for Daddy to perform the spanking and is to make every effort to make the discipline easier for Daddy to handle